Since I attended my first SB&H meeting in Toronto as a 19 year old Brock Music major from Niagara on the Lake, my life has grown and shifted in ways that I never could have imagined. I’ve conquered some incredibly steep and slippery slopes, and have been places and seen things that most people can only read about. I truly feel blessed, and overwhelmingly grateful.
Growing up with spina bifida, a birth defect that affects the spine, I was never physically active. I believed my disability excluded me from keeping fit. My peers would ridicule me in gym class because I could not keep up. Their mocking left me self-conscious.
Since I was a child I was encouraged to be as independent as possible. My family, teachers, doctors and therapists would all tell me to not let my spina bifida diagnosis prevent me from living a ‘normal’ life and for the most part, I had a relatively normal childhood.
My husband Frank’s journey began in the Spring of 2011. We had been retired by then for nearly 19 years. We try to stay active and enjoy walking, especially along the Seawalls in West Vancouver or North Vancouver. We also went to the local Recreation Center for Senior’s exercises on a weekly basis. So life was rolling along very well and we were both enjoying travel and good health.
Jeffrey and I were married at age 25.We were told that it would be difficult or impossible to have children, but we were blessed with our first child Austin just 9 months after our honeymoon. On Austin’s first birthday, we discovered that another was on the way. Another healthy pregnancy, or so we thought, right up until the day our daughter was born.